The Journal

I came across a post in Facebook by a male author. He kindly advised all ladies not to get married young, to get a steady career first before everything and he also said that if you choose to get married first then your life won't be as colourful as you want it to.  Well, I do agree with him.  Mostly what he said is true. I got married quite young, at 24 of age. I got pregnant right away and already had 2 kids within 2 years of marriage. I didn't have a fancy job though I studied at a local Uni, I don't own a house under my name, or even a car. I basically have nothing. Nothing to myself, much far for others. Sounds pathetic right? And weak too.  I solely depend on my husband though I do make some money on my own but yeah ...lepas buat beli kasut run je. Haha. But I always encourage my kids to pursue whatever they want to be, to have a career, to have anything they want and wish. But you know what, that part he said " hidup mu takkan bercorak" , I have to disagree...

Some says, as you grow older you don't really need friends that are always close to you or be around you. All you need is a friend who is close to your heart .Well, it is true. Partially.  But isn't it wonderful to have a friend (or friends) who is around you within your reach. Whom you call and have a coffee break with. Whom you enjoy to be with, spending time with. Don't you think?  I'm glad that I have friends who are not only close to me but close to my heart as well. I do have a lot of friends. Near and far. Young and old through all the years. But when my kids was smaller I didn't have any friends to hang out with. And I have to admit I somestimes to envy those who have friends that are close to them and to spend time with. And who would've thought I am able to do that now.  Friends to hang out. Friends for coffee. Friends for more adventures. I'm so grateful for all this. Thank you for being my friends.  #runningbuddies #hikingsquad